FIRST CASE.
I was bullied in kindergarten, because I have somekind of not-really-normal-teeth, and then my friends started to call me "monster" or "cepot" but I was really innocent back then so I didn't mind what they said about me UNLESS THEY TOOK MY MEAL. But, being bullied about physical wasn't so bad and hurt that time. Maybe because I was trying to just accept myself the way I am, and thankfully my parents always told me that I'm beautiful, and they told me to stay just the way I am. People can find the unique side of me, somehow.
SECOND CASE
I was bullied in Junior High School, together with my 4-best-friends. We're being bullied because somehow the other girls felt jealous about us. I didn't know what they really felt that time. But I told you, guys. Being bullied verbally is way more hurt that it may seems. Because you know when you feel pain in your body, maybe your body can fix that pain but when you have pain in your heart about what people say about you, it took some times to heal your heart RIGHT IN THE FEELING GUUUUYS!!!!
Okay, get back to the topic. But they didn't talk about my appearance as mush as they talked about how annoying I was that time. Somehow, I just want to slap their face if I remember that time. But thankfully, those painful words didn't disturb my study, so I can slap them with my achievements :) when people said "the best revenge for someone is success" and somehow I already feel it and IT FELT SO GOOD, GUYS. I TOLD YA.
Nothing feels good about being bullied. I had painful experience since I was 5 years old. And the effect for me as a high-schooler is I try really hard to become friends with almost everybody. And somehow I feel insecure about myself and words I just say to them like "did I do something wrong?" so yaaaa you can call it as paranoid. And when people don't really close to me sometimes I'm wondering what's wrong with me, That's why I try so hard to adapt with other people even if I have to hurt myself. It's better to hurt myself than to have the same experience.
Okay, so those are my experiences about bully. My tips is, don't ever get involved in case of bullying!
Okay, so I'm going to share one of sWooZie videos, about bullying. Unfortunately, he had the same experience like me, he was bullied. He shared his experiences in a funny way, so this video isn't boring at all, because it has a lot of animations and effects too! WORTH IT.
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